Yes and there’s so much hippocrasy around funerals That’s what I do I grow a beard and I know things shirt. Make no effort to see a person whilst they were still alive, but go to extraordinary lengths to attend their funeral. It’s the guilt tripping my family I want to avoid. They know my views; it’s in my will. Direct cremation then at some point everyone that wants to go down the chippy and partake in karaoke. Donations to my local special care baby unit and epilepsy charity if anyone wants to. The only flowers are to be wild bluebells, forget-me-nots, daffs, snowdrops and croci if it’s not the right season then no flowers. I’m not particularly enthralled with the idea of being draped in the skin of a slaughtered animal as the sub-Saharan Africans do.
Maybe you should look again at the definition of That’s what I do I grow a beard and I know things shirt. You can donate your remains to science or education. Its free. My mom has donated her whole body to Stanford. They will then send me the cremated remains when they are finished. I wasn’t onboard in the beginning, but if it can help in someway, why not. I have been one as soon as I was old enough. Yes I call them professional funeral goers.