Yeah nah mate Shut up liver you’re fine shirt, controlling all the money and allowing your partner an allowance is text book financial abuse. It’s a real worry that you don’t understand that that is abuse. So are guilt trips and other forms of manipulation but simply making sure the budget balances and that the family do not fall into bad habits is just good discipline. I notice we do not get a credit score for the woman involved here. In fact without knowing her it is impossible to say if this was controlling behaviour or a sensible precaution with a woman who had a problem with shopping on credit. Read the article again-properly and it’s obvious he was a controlling man.
My wife earns and we have joint accounts and always have Shut up liver you’re fine shirt. But then she is trustworthy with money. Maybe this woman isn’t I have met both men and women who have to be controlled when it comes to finance as they have no clue with money. So this is not always abuse. Alice states She felt like a possession, and he dealt with all the finances so that’s being controlled,her little girls personality changed. Because of her home life, and the authorities would never have been involved if it was a case of the mum being rubbish with money.