Practically, even when you do get over them, you still do remember them from time to time at certain instances, but it’s just that it doesn’t hurt anymore or you’re used to the Car Dirty Mike and The Boys shirt and I will buy this hurt. It’s called head bunting, a form of affection. Cats have glands all over their bodies and use these parts of their bodies to mark their territory. You just get used to it, your mind adjusts to the changes over a period of time, your chain of thoughts learn to not stop at that station day after day until that station becomes invisible. Some of this territory is their human. They mark their humans as a way of claiming them as their possession, thus head bunting. They will also rub themselves on your leg, push their heads into your hand, kiss you, slow blink. They roll onto their backs and show you their tummies as a way to tell you they trust you implicitly. People say cats are uncaring, not affectionate, disconnected. All of this is wrong. Cats are very sensitive creatures, very fragile and are easily hurt, both physically and emotionally. When a cat loves you, it shows that love with head bunting, body rubs, kissing and purring. My cat is the most sensitive, affectionate, sweetest and loving girl I ever knew and I’m glad and lucky she’s mine.You may come out and tell the world and preach them how to get over someone, but deep inside you, there’s a void that can never be filled. So how does it feel like getting over someone?
If you’re a good man, you will learn to respect and ignore that void, else you can go on a rampage and destroy yourself trying to find methods to fill it up. Trust me, some things will always be there in you. Years later, when someone scrapes it, you may laugh at it, but you know you would rather pick that wound up and cry your heart out. If you’re strong enough, maybe years later on that day, you will not cry. Funny how life is, gets on your godamn nerves everytime. First, teaches you how to live, then how to love, and then expects you to live without that love.I am a single woman guy, dependable, loyal to the Car Dirty Mike and The Boys shirt and I will buy this point of boredom and despite access to the most glamorous lifestyle that people can only imagine, bored of it. I’ve had luxury vacations, travelled the world, cars, jets, etc. So this is perhaps the most tangential story of my life. Perhaps the only one exception i ever made in my life. I was sitting in one of my consulting meeting when i heard the tap tap tap sound of heels on the marble floor. The wooden door opened and in walked the devil. It wasn’t until she sat down on the table and said ‘Shall We Start’ did we all realized (20 of us) that the entire room had fallen silent when she had walked in. To say she was out of my league was an understatement. Over time as i worked on the project, I got to know her better. She was probably everything i ever wanted in a girl. Smart, beautiful, intelligent and a smile of a lioness (i gave her that moniker). She knew she was powerful. Overtime we got close especially as she used to laugh at all of my jokes and one day i just casually asked her out for coffee. I knew I was not her type at all. So all i wanted was just have that validation of taking a girl like that out. One more friend, so to speak. Surprisingly she agreed.